Welcome to my commonplace blog

The goal of this blog is to preserve a few ideas and quotes from books I read. In the old days when books were not so readily available, people kept "commonplace books" where they copied choice passages they wanted to be able to remember and perhaps reuse. The idea got picked up by V.F.D. and it's common knowledge that most of that organization's volunteers have kept commonplace books, and so have Laura and I.

I'm sure there are many other Internet sites and blogs dedicated to the same idea. But this one is mine. Feel free to look around and leave comments, but not spam.

31 August 2011

Sarah, Plain and Tall (Patricia MacLachlan)

Beautiful, flowing poetic writing. A short book that can be read in a couple of sittings, but which has a haunting quality that stays with the reader.


Quotes:

"One Thing," I said in the quiet of the room.
"What's that?" asked Papa, looking up.
I put my arm around Caleb.
"Ask her if she sings," I said.

28 August 2011

The Coming of Bill (P. G. Wodehouse)

Also called "The Great White Hope" and set in New York, this is a satirical novel, but not a "ha!ha!" comical one.

Finished reading this on Ana's 12th birthday. Happy birthday Ana!


Quotes:

John Bannister smiled. He had a wintry smile, a sort of muscular affection of the mouth, to which his eyes contributed nothing.

It was a significant sign of his changed attitude towards his profession that he was not drawing Steve as a figure in an allegorical picture or as "Apollo" or "The Toiler," but simply as a well-developed young man who had had the good sense to support his nether garments with Middleton's Undeniable Suspenders.

It has been well said that it is better for a third party to quarrel with a buzz-saw than to interfere between husband and wife

He realized with the abruptness which comes to a man who stands alone with nature in the small hours that he was very sleepy.

21 August 2011

Healing the Heart of Democracy: The Courage to Create a Politics Worthy of the Human Spirit (Parker J. Palmer)

A love song for American democracy and an impassioned plea for its preservation.


Quotes:

Much has been said about the “voice of depression.” It is a voice that speaks despairingly about the whole of one's life no matter how good parts of it may be—a voice so loud and insistent that when it speaks, it is the only sound one can hear. I know that voice well. I have spent long days and nights listening to its deadly urgings.

Perhaps we share an abiding grief over some of modernity's worst features: its mindless relativism, corrosive cynicism, disdain for tradition and human dignity, indifference to suffering and death.

I, too, have a nonnegotiable conviction: violence can never be the answer.

American democracy was intended to generate, not suppress, the energy created by conflict, converting it into social progress as a hydroelectric plant converts the energy of dammed-up water into usable power. But our democratic institutions are not automated. They must be inhabited by citizens and citizen leaders who know how to hold conflict inwardly in a manner that converts it into creativity, allowing it to pull them open to new ideas, new courses of action, and each other. That kind of tension-holding is the work of the well-tempered heart: if democracy is to thrive as that restored prairie is thriving, our hearts and our institutions must work in concert.

I believe in democracy as long as we understand that it is not something we have but something we must do.

If I were asked for two words to summarize the habits of the heart American citizens need in response to twenty-first-century conditions, chutzpah and humility are the words I would choose.

But a heart that has been consistently exercised through conscious engagement with suffering is more likely to break open instead of apart.

In a healthy democracy, public conflict is not only inevitable but prized.

And yet this is one of the most crucial lessons of the twentieth century, one that we forget at our peril: tension is a sign of life, and the end of tension is a sign of death.

The civilizing impact of science, for example, does not come primarily from its most widely heralded discoveries. It comes from insisting that we embrace contradictory observations and explanations, using the experimental method to let their tensions advance our knowledge. Good scientists do not fear divergent views but welcome them for whatever new truth they may reveal. They also know that every new truth is likely to be followed, sooner or later, by yet another contradiction and that only by holding such tensions over time can we advance our knowledge.

Unlike the political and the private, which are realms of relative order, the public is an arena of unpredictable and uncontrollable disorder.

we are so obsessed with our private lives that we are largely oblivious to our public diminishments.

Try to love the questions themselves…. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given because you would not be able to live them—and the point is to live everything. Live the questions now. (Rilke)

My core religious beliefs include this simple article of faith: the God who gave all of us life wants us to do the same for each other.

When people or groups who claim religious motivation make their points by using violence in any form—spiritual, psychological, verbal, or physical—it seems clear to me that they are driven by fear rather than faith, committed to control instead of trust in God.

Anne Lamott says, “You can safely assume you've created God in your own image when it turns out that God hates all the same people you do.”

White American pioneers—who found themselves in a land with abundant food, water, and building materials almost everywhere they went—prided themselves on being self-sufficient, a virtue Americans have claimed as a national trait ever since. But Christianity and Judaism, America's dominant religious traditions, all began in the harsh deserts of the Middle East, as did Islam. Nomads in that trackless, treeless terrain must often depend on others for shelter and sustenance.

the Internet has become a public space—perhaps the public space—where people meet to share news and discuss issues as they once did at the crossroads or on the plaza

When we openly acknowledge this gap between aspiration and reality and are willing to live in it honestly, a myth can encourage us to bring what we are a bit closer to what we seek to be. When we confuse the aspiration with the reality of our lives, we can get ourselves into very deep trouble as individuals and as a nation.

All we Americans need to do is chant “one nation under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all,” and we get a booster shot of national and delusional self-righteousness.

A movement's success is signaled by a slow accretion of small changes in the system of institutional rewards and punishments by which all societies exercise social control.

These four stages—deciding to live “divided no more,” forming communities of congruence, going public with a vision, and transforming the system of punishment and reward—are found in every social movement I have studied.

The organic renewal generated by a movement eventually withers and dies, setting the stage for yet another movement. The movement called American democracy is no exception.

For the last six of those years, I have worked on this book, making a case for a nonviolent politics in which creative conflict is possible.

we cannot settle for mere “effectiveness” as the ultimate measure of our failure or success

Nothing that is worth doing can be achieved in our lifetime; therefore, we must be saved by hope. Nothing which is true or beautiful or good makes complete sense in any immediate context of history; therefore, we must be saved by faith. Nothing we do, however virtuous, can be accomplished alone; therefore we are saved by love. Reinhold Niebuhr

Finally (and here is a sentence I never imagined writing), I thank my conversation partners on Facebook. (you're welcome!)

20 August 2011

For the Love of a Dog: Understanding Emotion in You and Your Best Friend (Patricia B. McConnell)


A study of doggie emotions, a love song for dogs, and a tribute to Cool Hand Luke, the best dog ever!

Quotes:
We’ve long known that you can stimulate different areas of the brain with a mild electrical current to evoke feelings of fear, sadness, or amusement. What’s most remarkable about those cases is that the research subject, wide awake and in no pain, always comes up with an intellectual explanation for his or her feelings after the emotion is elicited.
There’s a long list of surprising ways you can influence your emotions by changing what you’re doing with your body.
Before the invention of things like caramel corn and Krispy Kremes, what made us feel good was good for us.
dogs aren’t disgusted by poop. They love the stuff. Eating feces, whether that of another dog or a pile deposited by sheep or horses, seems to be a highlight in the life of many a dog. [...] Dogs aren’t people, and if they have their own image of heaven, it most likely involves poop.
Accurate, objective observation is a skill that requires practice, but it starts with asking your mind to focus on what you see, not on what you think it means.[...] A very small amount of time and energy spent in reminding your brain to make accurate, objective descriptions of your dog can radically improve the relationship between you and your dog.
One of the most important things to notice about a dog’s face is whether her mouth is open or closed. Relaxed, happy dogs tend to have relaxed and often slightly open mouths.
A stiff body and a closed mouth are signs of a dog on high alert, whose next move may be to lunge forward. [...] Dogs frequently use “freeze” as a signal to other dogs. If you see two dogs greeting each other who are both stiff and still for more than a second or two, you’d better do something to break the tension. Things might get dramatic if you don’t.
Mounting in play isn’t about sex, it’s about social status
Groomers and trainers know to go on alert when a dog abruptly whips her head around toward their hand and freezes her body for a microsecond. I take it as a threat, a clear warning not to repeat what I just did. If a dog does this with a closed jaw, she is most likely communicating to you that she is objecting to what you are doing.
The usual approach of all people, when greeting human or dog, is basically the opposite of a polite approach in dog society. Dogs approach one another from the side, curving their line of approach and avoiding eye contact, while keeping their bodies loose and fluid. We do the opposite: we keep our bodies upright and relatively still, and make direct eye contact while reaching out with our paws before we’ve even so much as exchanged scents.
Tail wagging is most commonly interpreted as a signal of friendliness, but that can be a big mistake. What is friendly is a loose, relaxed tail that wags the hindquarters along with it.
a dog with wrinkles around her eyes is a dog who’s glad to see you
dogs spend a lot of energy avoiding direct eye contact with one another unless they are good buddies
Eugene Morton, who suggested that the vocalizations of all mammals follow certain general principles. Sounds related to offense tend to be low in pitch and “noisy,” like a low, growly bark, while sounds related to fear or appeasement tend to be higher pitched and more pure in tone, like the yelp of a frightened puppy. Excitement also tends to raise pitch
the only thing two trainers will agree on is that the third trainer doesn’t know what she’s talking about
if dogs grow up with little environmental stimulation they can turn into adults who are lacking in the ability to handle even minor stress. Stress is just change, after all
because each of us has a different cortex, each of us lives in a slightly different world.
Animals who don’t feel fear aren’t going to live long enough to reproduce: it’s as simple as that.
Temple Grandin says, “Fear is so bad for animals, I think it’s worse than pain.”
Researchers have found that people who express no preference for using one hand or the other have higher than expected levels of generalized anxiety disorders. [...] You may be interested to know that out of forty-eight dogs, twenty-one were “lefties,” sixteen used their right paws most often, and eleven were “ambilateral,” showing no preference. That is, of course, very different from humans, of whom about 10 percent are left-handed or ambidextrous and 90 percent are right-handed.
shyness is a “conservative” trait, so it’s going to hang around in the gene pool, even if only somewhere in the background
Actually, that pretty well sums up all of dog training. If people stopped yelling “No!” at their dogs, and instead taught them what they want them to do, rather than not do, the world would be a better place.
I should state for the record here that I have never bitten a dentist—a fact of which, given my level of terror when someone jams a huge needle into my mouth, I am very proud.
every good treatment plan begins with a management plan to ensure the safety of your dog and your friends, and, as important, to prevent your dog from being conditioned in the wrong direction.
This is also why it can be dangerous to use a strong physical correction on some dogs: engaging in battle with a dog who is already pumped up for a fight can make things worse. [...] This is a situation you want to avoid: fights don’t always have winners, and too often the result is that both of you end up losing.
The simplest and most effective way to help a dog learn emotional control is to teach her to “stay” on cue.
Don’t fool yourself: if you yell at your dog for something he did twenty seconds ago, you’re not training him; you’re merely expressing your own anger.
Don’t try to solve the problem during the crisis; find a way to finesse yourself out of it.
don’t decrease your dog’s frequency of reinforcement until you’re willing to bet ten dollars that your dog will do what you ask
Greyhounds, for example, are the original couch potato dog, just as happy to stay inside when it’s raining as you are.
Your dog is much more likely to come if you turn your body sideways and move backward a bit while you call “Come!”
Keep this in mind with your own dog. She is who she is, and the key to her happiness is knowing what parts of her you can change through training and conditioning (which, don’t get me wrong, is a lot), and what parts of her need to be accepted and celebrated.
Like us, dogs enjoy petting during quiet times, when the pack is settled in, cozied up in the living room or bedroom, the outside world shut away for awhile. They enjoy petting least when they’re in high-arousal play mode. [...] In general, dogs enjoy touch most on the sides of their heads, under their ears and chins, on their chests and bellies, and at the base of their tails. [...]I wish we’d talk more about “rubbing, stroking, or massaging” dogs instead of “petting” them, “petting” being a word close enough to “patting” to cause no end of trouble. Pats, especially rapidly repeated ones on top of the head, tend to put dogs off.
it’s time to stop apologizing for the belief that animals, like our dogs, have emotions. Of course, our dogs can experience emotions like fear, anger, happiness, and jealousy
In some ways, it’s really that simple, isn’t it? At their best, that is what dogs do: they make us happy. At our best, we make them happy, too. That can only be true because we share so very much with them, and the foundation of what we share is our emotions. Dogs are emotions—living breathing embodiments of fear and anger and joy, emotions we can read on their faces as clearly as any language.

04 August 2011

Programming Scala (Venkat Subramaniam)

Another good introduction to Scala.


Quotes:

Scala's type inference is low ceremony and has no learning curve; you simply have to undo some Java practices.